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Should Young Children Start Singing Lessons Early in Their Development

  • Writer: Cynthia Robinshaw
    Cynthia Robinshaw
  • Aug 26, 2022
  • 4 min read

Updated: 17 hours ago


Children playing with boom whackers and drums in preschool

Introduction

Several times a year, I have parents and grandparents reach out to me to inquire about voice lessons for their very young child. Most of these guardians tell me that their child sings like a well-known pop star. However, before your child starts singing like the latest pop sensation, it's essential to consider their maturity level.childhood developmental stages, and key childhood music milestones.


Dangers of Improper Singing Technique for Young Children


Young children emulate what they see and hear in adult singing. Their voices are too immature physiclogically to reproduce the sounds they hear and can lead to dangerous vocal abuse. If your child is belting out pop songs, this needs to be addressed as it can lead to serious vocal issues. Pop singing (commercial music style of music demands excessive sub-glottal pressure and vocal power for children, as their vocal folds are only 1/8 inch long! The vocal mechanism (including the larynx, hyoid bone, vocal folds, thyroarytenoid, and cricothyroid muscles) isn't developed enough for such powerful singing. Pop singing should not be taught to young children until after puberty when hormones strengthen the muscles and lengthen the vocal folds. This is why many voice teachers avoid working with children under 11 or 12 years old.


Considerations for Voice Lessons



  • Childhood Developmental Milestones

Children develop at different rates, and their emotional and cognitive maturity can significantly impact their ability to take lessons. Consider whether the child can focus for extended periods and follow instructions. developmental milestones are key indicators of a child's growth and progress in various domains, including physical, cognitive, emotional, and social development. These milestones serve as a framework for understanding the typical patterns of development that most children follow as they grow from infancy through early childhood. Recognizing these milestones can help parents, caregivers, and educators identify when a child is developing normally and when they may need additional support or intervention.

  • Cognitive Skills Development

Cognitive development is a complex and multifaceted process that encompasses the gradual progression of a child's ability to think critically, learn effectively, and solve problems in various contexts. This development is not merely a linear path; rather, it involves a series of stages that reflect significant changes in a child's mental processes and capabilities. Key components of cognitive development include the enhancement of memory, the refinement of attention, and the expansion of language skills, each of which plays a crucial role in how children interact with the world around them.


  • Memory Skills Developement

Attention is a critical area of cognitive developmental area. Young children often display a limited attention span, which gradually increases as they mature. This shift allows them to focus on tasks for longer periods, which is vital for effective learning. The ability to sustain attention is linked to various factors, including environmental stimuli and individual interest in the subject matter. As children develop, they also learn to selectively attend to relevant information while filtering out distractions, a skill that becomes increasingly important in academic settings.


  • Language Skills Development

Language skills are intricately tied to cognitive development and are a key aspect of how children communicate their thoughts and emotions. Language acquisition begins in infancy with cooing and babbling and progresses to the formation of words and sentences. As children grow, their vocabulary expands, and they learn to use language for various purposes, such as asking questions, expressing needs, and engaging in social interactions. This linguistic development not only facilitates communication but also enhances cognitive processes, as language is often a tool for thinking and problem-solving.


  • Emotional and Social Development

Emotional and social development encompasses how children express their feelings, interact with others, and understand social norms. This area of development is crucial for forming relationships and developing empathy. Monitoring developmental milestones is essential for identifying potential delays or concerns early on. Each child develops at their own pace, but significant deviations from expected milestones may warrant further evaluation.


Now that you haave considered all of the above, it is time to decide if your child is ready for singing lessons by examining their childhood music milestones.


  • .Childhood Music Milestones:

1. At the age of 3 or 4, does the child sing along with nursery rhymes and children's songs from shows like Sesame Street, or do they sing pop songs they hear from adults?

2. Does the child make up their own songs while playing alone or with others?

3. Does the child demonstrate an understanding of rhythm by clapping along with music or dancing?

4. When singing, does the child lift their shoulders and head towards the ceiling while singing loudly, or do they use "belly breathing" and sing in a soft, head voice typical of children?

5. Is the child mature enough to understand concepts of posture and breathing?

6. Can the child count to 100, recite the alphabet, and read simple three-word sentences (e.g., "See Spot run")?

7. Can your child reproduce a short melodic and rhythmic pattern after hearing it once?

8. Does the child enjoy singing in front of family and friends?

9. Is the child's language development suitable for their age? And finally:

10. Is your child willing to practice for 20 to 30 minutes each day, or will this become a constant challenge?


If you notice difficulties in the questions mentioned above, you might consider exploring different music classes to enhance your child's musical understanding before they are prepared to sing.


Alternative Music Training for Young Children

  • Learning to sing is akin to learning any other musical instrument. Children must learn proper breathing, posture, music notation, and how to replicate simple musical phrases and rhythms, as well as the Solfege system (Do Re Mi...). If you feel your child isn't developmentally ready, consider saving your money and instead investing in programs:

  • Kinder Music kindermusik.com,

  • Music Together musictogether.com.

  • Sound Beginnings letsplaymusicsite.com/sound-beginnings.

  • Music Fun Time musicfuntime.org.

  • Suzuki piano or violin suzukiassociation.org. 



Conclusion

 While the enthusiasm of parents and grandparents is commendable, it is vital to approach voice lessons with an understanding of the child's developmental readiness. Nurturing a child's love for music should come first, allowing them to grow at their own pace. you're considering voice lessons for your child please check into these five alternative music training programs for your child and please contact me before enrolling them in "America's Got Talent" or "The Voice." Just because their grandmother thinks they should be on TV doesn't mean they are ready!


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